Monday, February 6, 2012

Single on a Couples Holiday~ Nataleigh Robinson

Hearts and flowers and candies…Oh My!  If you’re anything like me Valentine’s Day is not a day that produces tingly feelings and butterflies in the stomach.  In fact it probably produces feelings of loneliness and a deep longing to have that special someone at our side.  For many girls that deep longing can turn into such desperation that you’ll do practically anything to get a date for just that one day.  But I have news for you…it is very possible to be single on Valentine’s Day and still have fun.  Let me repeat that: You do NOT have to have a boyfriend on Valentine’s Day to have something to celebrate.

Still I know how difficult it can be hard not to feel down about not having someone special when all your friends are celebrating the night with a candle light dinner at a fancy restaurant.  Fear not there is hope and with a little work you can still have a great Valentine’s day.  So here are 10 tips to make the best of your holiday.

1. First off, DO NOT define yourself by your relationship status. You should never identify yourself by whether or not you are in a relationship.  When you find yourself wishing you had someone this holiday just remember that it’s better to be single than to be in a bad relationship.

2. What better time than Valentine’s Day to start thinking about the qualities you want in your future husband.  Take some time to write a list of all the things that you really want in the man you marry, don’t be afraid to put down qualities such as “has a good smile” or “plays sports” but be sure to put down qualities such as “puts God above all” and “respects authority”  Then take some time to pray over your list and ask God to keep your future husband pure until the day that you are brought together.

3.  Since you’re already thinking about your future husband, why not spend some time thinking about the future you.  Think about the type of wife you want to be and start working on becoming the person your dream partner would fall in love with.  Start preparing now to be the wife God wants you to be so that you’ll be ready when Mr. Right comes along.  

4. Plan well in advance to do something that will not place you in the path of all those cooing couples. Even if you usually enjoy eating out by yourself or you think it would be fun to go and see that movie you’ve been dying to see, think about how you’ll feel when you’re sitting there alone watching all those couples making kissy faces at each other.  Trust me it’s not worth the torture.

5. Do something special for yourself.  Go on a shopping spree and get yourself something new to wear to school that day.  Dress up and look your best.  If you feel good you’ll be more confident and you’ll find it harder to let your mind slip into the insecure thoughts that threaten to make you feel like you’re not good enough or like no guy could ever love you.  Cause I can tell you that those are just lies from the Devil who hates when you feel secure with who you are and loves making God’s creation doubt itself.



6. Try to resist the temptation to comfort eat.  If you feel the need to stuff yourself full of ice cream and cookies and chips than you’ll only feel worse about yourself in the end when you gain a pound or two.  You’ll feel much better about yourself if you treat your body right. 



7. Get out and enjoy nature.  Valentine’s Day is my favorite day to go for a long walk and spend time in God’s presence.  Take some time to enjoy God’s creation.  Whether there’s still snow on the ground or the grass is just starting to peak through take a moment to breathe the fresh air and thank God for being Valentine



8. Have a single’s party.  Invite a bunch of your girl friends over to celebrate being single together.  Set up your own candle light dinner and rent a comedy and just have fun laughing together and building relationships that are deeper than just a quick fling.  Maybe you even want to take some time to write out the perfect husband list from #2 together



9. Volunteer somewhere.  According to 1 Corinthians chapter 13 there is much more to love than just pretty flowers and romantic feelings.  Maybe you would rather spend your Valentine’s Day showing true love to those who rarely get shown God’s love.  What better way to experience God's love than to share it with others



10. Be content and be thankful.  Remember that being single is a gift.  You more than likely won’t always be single and when you finally meet the perfect man, get married and start you’ll lives together you’ll start to realize all the things you can’t do now that you have another person to think about.  Make the most out of this time that you have, do the things that you’ve always wanted to do because this time won’t last forever.



Whatever you do this Valentine’s Day don’t let a couple-driven culture define your choice as something wrong. Be a trendsetter.  Enjoy being different.  Learn to be happy with yourself and avoid following the crowd. 

Did you know that Nataleigh has never sung in the shower?!
Did you know that Abby has a large family of 10?!

Photograph property of Lilies Among Thorns Magazine. Photograph taken by Abby Whear.

Friday, February 3, 2012

Love Revolution by Natalie Grant~ Review by Michelle Pell








Love Revolution ~ Natalie Grant
4 out of 5 Stars




Love Revolution is the eighth album released by Christian music artist, Natalie Grant. She has gained great prominence, with four consecutive Dove awards for best female artist.
I think this album is a tad bit "rockier" than her past productions, but it still has a very beautiful sound; it's not an overpowering kind of rock. Natalie has one of the strongest voices of any of the female artists on my radar. Her songs are full of solid messages. The themes of being the change in our world, the wonder and glory of God, and finding our definition in His love are all woven into the songs on this album. Because of the amazing lyrics and messages in the songs on this album, I think it might be Natalie's best yet. I love how she includes adoring songs of worship along with songs of how we should act as Christians and even one about our inner beauty.

Track List:
1. Daring to Be
2. Love Revolution
3. Greatness of God (single)
4. Human (single)
5. Beauty Mark
6. Power of the Cross
7. Desert Song
8. Your Great Name (single)
9. You Deserve
10. Someday Our King Will Come
11. Song to the King
12. Your Great Name (Acoustic Version)
 
 
Did you know that Michelle loves old fashioned clothes?!

Thursday, February 2, 2012

Top Six Vitamins Every Woman Should Take~ Haley Pscar

 
 
 
 
 
 
As you should know, vitamins and minerals play a huge part in how our bodies work but it can be hard to even know which ones to start with.  Some of you might just pop a multivitamin every day and think you’re good to go, but does your multivitamin really have what you need , and does it have nasty fillers like mercury or artificial flavors and dyes?  
What vitamins you take can make a huge difference on your health!  I personally take a ton of vitamins every day, but I won’t try to shove all of those down your throat today.  I’m just going to give you the basics for a healthier and happier day.

Vitamin C:

Most of us know of this vitamin, it’s simple and easy to find, but most don’t know really how wonderful it is for your health. Vitamin C it a wonderful   antioxidant, and is needed for growth and repairing bones, teeth, tissues, all over your body, it  helps reduce your chances of getting sick (Great to take when sick) . The body is not able to make vitamin C on its own, and it does not store vitamin C. It is therefore important to include plenty of vitamin C-containing foods in your daily diet. Serious side effects from too much vitamin C are very rare, because the body cannot store the vitamin, but very large doses can lead to stomach upset and diarrhea.
Signs of vitamin C deficiency are:
 Anemia, Bleeding gums ,Decreased ability to fight infection, Decreased wound-healing rate, Dry and splitting hair, Easy bruising, Gingivitis (inflammation of the gums)Nosebleeds ,Possible weight gain because of slowed metabolism, Rough, dry, scaly skin, Swollen and painful joints, and Weakened tooth enamel.

Vitamin D:

Vitamin D helps your body’s nerves, muscles, immune system, and helps  absorb calcium into the bones.  The sun is one of the best ways to get vitamin D, but since most of us are stuck in school or work all day it’s hard for our bodies to get the needed amount of vitamin D. Vitamin D-rich foods include egg yolks, saltwater fish, and liver. Vitamin D is also useful in slowing the reproduction of certain types of cancer cells.
Vitamin D deficiency seems to be common in the U.S. Maybe we are all just spending too much time inside. It is estimated the 25% of U.S. adults have less than 18 nanograms per milliliter of vitamin D (severe vitamin D deficiency). Overall, 40% of men and 50% of women are thought to be lower than the healthy level of vitamin D (28 nanograms per milliliter). The people most at risk are anyone who spends a lot of time indoors , and people with dark skin (dark skin absorbs less sunlight). When vitamin D levels are low, your body just doesn’t seem to work as well. Vitamin D deficiency has been linked to high blood pressure, insulin problems, diabetes risk, obesity and more.
If you take this vitamin be sure to take it right away in the morning for an extra boost of energy!

Vitamin E:

This wonderful antioxidant is your skins best friend!  Vitamin E helps the skins aging process, reduces the appearance of stretch marks and scars, burns, promotes faster healing, makes your hair shinier, fingernail growth, and the formation of red blood cells. Vitamin E is Fat soluble, not water soluble and can be stored in the body. However, vitamin E doesn't control physical signs of aging like wrinkles and grey hair. It won't make you live longer, either! But it can help you live better.
It isn't always easy to get enough vitamin E in your diet. Oils and margarines made from corn, cottonseed, soybean, safflower, and wheat germ are good sources of vitamin E. You can also get this powerful vitamin from nuts and seeds, like hazelnuts, sunflower seeds, peanuts, Brazil nuts, and almonds. Fruits, veggies, and whole grains have some vitamin E, but cooking at high temperatures destroys vitamin E. Look for fresh or lightly cooked/lightly processed foods for best vitamin E content.
Vitamin E deficiency symptoms include ruptured red blood cells, abnormal fat deposits, degenerative changes in muscles, skin and nails, and neurological disorders.
Vitamin E deficiency is associated with pancreatic, gallbladder, liver, and celiac diseases characterized by poor nutrient absorption from the digestive tract.
Nervous system problems – sensation loss, pain, and tingling – in the arms, hands, legs, and feet may signify vitamin E deficiency.
Deficiency of vitamin E is a nutritional deficiency and can be overcome by eating a proper diet and taking vitamin E supplement.
 
Vitamin A (beta-carotene):

Beta-carotene is an antioxidant, it is also a provitamin,  because it is easily converted to vitamin A in the liver. Vitamin A is essential for eye health, skin and mucous membrane health, reproduction and fertility, growth, and immune system function. Beta-carotene is not toxic when consumed in large amounts because the body will convert to vitamin A only what it needs. Side effects of too much beta-carotene include diarrhea and a yellow or orange cast to the skin, especially on the hands and feet. Beta-carotene is a powerful antioxidant, similar to vitamins E and C. Antioxidants protect the body from damage caused by the toxic byproducts of normal cellular metabolism that may cause cancer and other diseases.
The immune system does not function as well with low levels of Vitamin A. A lack of this vitamin affects skin cells, and mucous production in the respiratory, digestive, and urinary tracts, all of which provide barriers against infections. It is also crucial in the development of lymphocytes, or the white blood cells that fight infection. A deficiency in vitamin A adversely affects hormone production in the reproductive systems of both men and women. Low levels of vitamin A can also affect genes that regulate growth, impeding normal development in a fetus, possibly resulting in birth defects or other abnormalities.

B complex with a little extra B12:

Vitamin B complex is made up of eight vitamins, they were initially thought to be one vitamin because they usually co-exist in the same food but were later found to be different with diverse functions. So they retained the ‘vitamin b’ part in their names. These vitamins include vitamin B1, vitamin B2, Vitamin B3, vitamin B5, vitamin B6, vitamin B7, vitamin B9 and vitamin B12. Alongside vitamin B6 these are the vitamins that should be taken daily. All 8 are essential for human metabolism, growth, reproduction, general health, appetite, the normal functioning of the digestive tract, nervous stability, and blood cell formation. B Vitamins are so important they are one of the few nutrients the federal government mandates to be added to foods. The problem is, you cannot rely on your food for enough B vitamin. Intense heat, processing, slow cooking, light, baking soda and baking powder all destroy B vitamins.
When was the last time you went through a day without sugar, processed foods, alcohol, caffeine or stress?  Every one of these depletes your body's supply of vitamin B.
Deplete the body of these compounds and you weaken the nerve and muscle tissue which could result in nerve problems and loss of muscle tone. The loss of brain tissue will affect your memory. Phosphorous depletion will weaken muscle and rhythm function, affecting the rhythm of the heart.
Make sure you are taking this important vitamin, it will affect your future!

Calcium and magnesium:

Calcium is crucial for strong bones, especially for women, who are five times more likely than men to develop bone-weakening  osteoporosis.
Hypertension, or high blood pressure, is a problem that many individuals face. With the use of calcium, however, blood pressure may be controlled to some degree. Studies have shown that diets high in calcium result in a decrease in blood pressure and risk of hypertension
A study analysis performed by professors at Creighton University directly links calcium to weight control and fat loss. Data from several observational studies and trials was collected and analyzed to determine calcium's effect on weight. The results led these individuals to the conclusion that "increased calcium intake results in reduced body weight, mainly by reducing fat mass." It should be noted, however, that calcium is only one player in the weight management equation. Many other factors influence body weight.
Calcium and magnesium are two elements that are highly essential for the body. They are mentioned together because they mostly function as a group. Calcium is the most abundant element in the body and is extremely essential for the growth and development of the bones. However, it is not very easy for calcium to get absorbed within the body and hence most of it is flushed out. Magnesium is the element that helps calcium get absorbed within the body. Refined sugar and alcohol interfere directly with the amounts of calcium and magnesium in the body. Both of these substances eliminate more magnesium out of the body in the form of urine. As a result, magnesium is unavailable for the absorption of calcium and its level goes down too. Hence, people suffering from bone related problems must reduce their intake of both refined sugar and alcohol.

How to find the right vitamin:

Most of the best vitamins are the cheapest ones, don’t go looking for the best and most expensive, just look at the back of the bottle. Look at the ingredients if it has sugar, artificial dyes or flavors, preservatives, or any other listed ingredient that shouldn’t be in that vitamin put it back.
 You want to have one that is free from artificial dyes flavors, sugars, gluten, yeast, wheat, milk or milk derivatives, lactose, preservatives, soy, and sodium.
 
Just taking these six vitamins will help your now and in the future. I hope you learned a little something new and consider going and getting some of the vitamins listed above!
 
Did you know that Haley believes that organic is the way to go?!

Wednesday, February 1, 2012

Spring Cleaning Tips~ Heather Young

Ever feel defeated by the dust, clutter, and work that come with spring? Believe it or not, you can overcome these seemingly scary circumstances. Using the following tips, you will be done with your spring cleaning in no time!

1. Make a list.

Creating a list can help you stay organized.  Also, you will feel good when you check off completed tasks.

2. Set lots of little goals.

If you try to do a huge project all at once, you will probably become burdened and discouraged.  Instead, make small goals that you can accomplish easily.

3. Work on one assignment at a time.

Don’t overwhelm yourself; stay focused on the task at hand.  And be sure write check marks next to what you have already done!

4. Take breaks.

Short, frequent breaks keep you refreshed and ready to continue working.  I would recommend taking a break at least once every hour, depending on how vigorous the work is.

5. Motivate yourself.

Do what makes you enjoy work! Listening to music is my favorite thing to do while working.  Other activities you may want to try are humming or singing, or keeping tasty snacks handy.  If you must, have someone with you who can keep you accountable and make sure you are really trying.

6. Reward yourself.

Have a prize you can look forward to that will make you want to finish your tasks.  You could reward yourself when you take your short breaks, or wait for a really big award at the end of the day.  Personally, my weakness is food.

See? That wasn’t so hard to read.  Now put these tips into action! (There was my motivation for you.)



Did you know that Heather plays chess?!